Living a Dauntless Life



What’s in a Name?

Names are powerful. As a mom, I know that I spent months trying to choose the perfect names for each of my children.  I wanted names that represented who they were created to be.  Another word for a name is a label.  

Labels tell us the contents of a package.  Just think about all the ingredients listed on the items in your pantry!  Labels tell us where to place things, and where to find things.  Labels can even tell us how to treat the items in the packaging: FRAGILE and PERISHABLE are two words that come to mind with this.  I think, sister, from these simple examples you can begin to understand the power that labels can have.

A Few of My Labels

A few years ago I was in a deep, dark place mentally, spiritually, and physically. Our family was stationed in Stuttgart, Germany for an overseas military tour.  From the outside, it seemed I had it all together. I had labels like this from my family and friends:

  • Soldier’s wife
  • Mom of three
  • Full-time teacher
  • World traveler

What others didn’t know and couldn’t see was that our marriage was falling apart, that heated words and arguments were the basis for almost every conversation.  Resentment and indignation were a part of the foundation that was crumbling under our feet.  And after 12 years of marriage, I was miserable, unlovable, and wanted out.

I was an impatient, angry, and slightly resentful mother too.  I wanted to call my children monsters but knew something was wrong with that image.  Oh, sister! I blamed them for my misery because they always needed something from me.  This sounds so horrible to write, but I’ve learned to bring light to the dark times. 

I was overweight and overwhelmed with where my life was heading.  My life was crumbling around me and I had allowed the Enemy to label me with lies and ugly words.  They sounded like this:

  • Unworthy and Undeserving
  • Fat and Ugly
  • Impatient
  • Disorganized
  • Lonely
  • Dumb and Stupid
  • Horrible wife/mother

I really could go on, but I think that’s enough traveling down that dark road of Memory Lane.  I know you get the idea. I bet you recognize some of the labels!

The Breaking Point- Beginning to Unlabel

So what changed?  How did I discover that I was wallowing in the Enemy’s filth?  How did I take back my life, fight for my marriage, and overcome the overwhelm in my motherhood and our home?  Through prayer and the Spirit’s whispers.

The Spirit-led strategies I use are what God has revealed to me through hours spent in prayer, meditation, and study in my own life.  Sister, I’ve been face-down on the floor crying out to God for deliverance!  I know what it feels like fighting the Enemy and his labels over my life.  I know what it’s like to feel no power over circumstances. Moments in my marriage and my motherhood in which the only hope I had was in the intercession of the Holy Spirit.  

Who was I?  Who does God say that I am?  How will I ever leave this dark place in which I feel bound?  How do I ‘unlabel’ myself from who the Enemy says I am?

I sought out through Scripture who God says that I am: loved, worthy, and appointed.  I am a Daughter of the King.  I am a Giant Slayer.  I am a temple of the Holy Spirit.  And dear sister, you are all of these things too!  I know this without a doubt that you are called, appointed, and His handiwork!

Right now, dear Giant Slayer, I am praying that the Spirit is whispering through these words to your heart and mind. I am praying that the Enemy is bound in your life so that you can rediscover who God created you to be:  a strong, valiant warrior in His army fighting side by side with me against the invisible Enemy.

Becoming Unlabeled

So how do we wage war with an invisible Enemy?  How do we purge the lies out and refill our souls with goodness, grace, and beauty?  How do we unlabel ourselves with who the Enemy has named us and replace it with God’s truthful labels and affirm who He says we are?  

Giant Slayer, we do this with God’s truth battling the Enemy’s lies head-on.  We do this by speaking God’s words and His truth into our lives.  We do this when we recognize the lies and labels the Enemy tries to hold over us.

I want you to know how to use scripture to create Godly affirmations that are grounded in Truth about who you are so that you can defeat the Enemy!

I want you to become UNLABELED by the word and know you are HIS!  Sister, God is about to slay the Giants through you and this UNLABELED course!

FREE Download

Sister, I want to send you some of my very first affirmations.

It’s a simple PDF download for your toolbox.  I have so many Spirit-led tools that I use that have changed my life.  I can’t help but share this with you!  What are you waiting for?

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Becoming Unlabeled Tools

Maybe, you want more than just a free download? I’ve created 2 more in-depth tools to help my other sisters in Christ learn to create Godly affirmations!

The Unlabeled Workbook

The Unlabeled Workbook is a 25-page PDF in a digital download format.  It is a step-by-step guide to help you create Godly affirmations.

It uses a Scripture-based and Spirit-led approach for Christian Affirmations.

Based on Romans 12:1-2, this is an alternative to the Full E-course *Unlabeled* for those who want an essential approach to creating Christian affirmations.

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The Unlabeled E-course

I’ve designed this course to help you become *unlabeled* by the world and affirm who you are in Christ using God’s Word.  Know, dear Sister, that I’m already praying for you and your heart and mind as I build this course for you!

This Scripture-based e-course will teach you how to remove the Enemy’s labels and affirm who God created you to be.  The video/audio/workbook lessons will focus on:

  1. Claiming God’s Word -His promises for us
  2. The Power of Using God’s Truth
  3. The Importance of using His Words against the Enemy
  4. Transforming Your Mindset
  5. Writing Your Own Affirmations


Check Out this Video for More Info

Register Here

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Invite a friend (or 5) to join us in becoming *UNLABELED* by the Enemy and Affirm who God created us to be!

You can do this by sharing this post on your social media or sending an email.

Let us become UNLABELED from the world and slay our Giants together!

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Sister, I’ve got a lot more tools to help you simplify your study time in the Word.

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Blessings from my toolbox to yours,
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Daughter of the King.
Veteran's Wife. Mother of Three Blessings.
Lover of Lemons, Salad, Coffee & the Simple Life
Learning to use the Mess to make His Message.

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  1. […] about how our words hold power, check out these posts on speaking life and the power of words, the labels we give to ourselves, and how to write Christian […]

  2. […] created UNLABELED as an e-course to help you create Godly Affirmations with you and plan to keep doing so to […]

  3. […] keep my priorities aligned with the mission that the Creator has placed in my life.  I can be unlabeled by the Enemy because I know who I am and how I’m called to serve […]

  4. […] I need to focus, but everything is fuzzy.  I can’t see God’s plan. I can’t hear God’s voice.  I am wondering what is wrong with me because I know I’m His handiwork.  I know I am appointed. I know I am valuable and called to help and lead and inspire others to break free of the bondage of labels and slay the giants.  Yet, here I am dumbstruck at the blank pages and faces before me with no words to write or say and overwhelm is camped on my shoulder. And not too far away is Frustration and Apathy leaning in like I am a little mouse caught in their trap.  I have forgotten that I AM UNLABLED! […]

  5. The enemy is quick to place a label on us, especially when we are in a dark place. You are right to expose the dark thoughts so that they no longer have power.

    1. Dauntless with Dignity says:

      His truth and light always exposes the lies and darkness. May we always proclaim His truth.

  6. Thanks for being so frank. It’s so easy to be pigeonholed by the enemy when we believe the lies he speaks about us. It’s wonderful that you’ve packaged a course to help others experience the freedom that you’re now walking in. God’s grace! <3

    1. Dauntless with Dignity says:

      Edith, thank you for taking the time to respond! I know this course will be the beginning of lives changed! May His freedom be shouted from the rooftops!

  7. […] Affirmation to remind me who I am so that I stay grounded. By the way, have you seen my course UNLABELED to help with this?  This has been a pivotal shift for my mindset transformation (Romans 12:1-2).  […]

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